Oct
30
2009
5

Facebook Schmacebook! Why I hate it.

My husband (…. …that sounded weird) made a fan page for me on Facebook. I told him to delete it. Why? Because I really hate Facebook!

I think that Facebook shows what our western society has become: it has a focus on individuals and not community. Everything is about individual success, and through Facebook you can show the world your own successful life, shouting look at me, look at me! I’ve done this, I’ve done that, I had that for dinner. Everybody is sitting at home in their IKEA furnished and successfully decorated livingrooms exposing their lifes to the world. This society is all about individuals and clicks (I don’t know if you call it click in English). It’s like a fucking (sorry) competition.

No wonder we are lonely! No wonder we get depressed! Loneliness is something that concerns more and more young people. Depression is one of the most common illnesses in this society. These are facts.

Why can’t we just call each other on the phone? Why are we so afraid of meeting face to face? What’s the point of being friends on Facebook if you can’t talk properly with that person face to face?

I don’t get it, I’m sorry.

No, wait, I’m not.

And for those who I am not able to meet because you live so far away: I hope that you will visit my blog. It’s not that I don’t want any contact with you, I miss you so much! But I’m not going to support Facebook by showing my name there :-P.

I want community. Facebook is not community.

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Oct
22
2009
3

What the…??

These pictures are taken outside the building where I work. This is a Finnish Presidenttikahvi (kahvi = coffee) cup. I have never seen these in Norway. How on earth did it find its way here? A little piece of Finland lying in the grass. I like it :-)

     

 

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Oct
09
2009
0

More photos from the wedding

Here are some more photos from our wedding. The pictures are taken by my dad.

Click here!

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Oct
05
2009
7

We’re married!

We had a wonderful time in Finland and a beautiful party in Bodø. Everything was perfect.

A big THANK YOU to

- everyone for being there and for the gifts
- everyone who took such nice pictures of us
- everyone who made cakes
- my mum and my dad for beautiful speeches and help
- Andreas’ mum, dad and grandparents for their help - we could never have done it without you
- my sister for being my maid of honor, for helping me, for the beautiful bridal bouquets
- Marianne for all her kind help and for being Andreas’ “best man”
- Arulnesan for making the delicious food
- Otto for the hairdo and make-up
- Anita’s friend Gerd for being a bartender and for helping us
- Arulnesan’s assistants and waitresses
- Helge for taking pictures
- Mikael and his friends and Bobleplast for the music
- Siv for the wedding dress
- Marte for buying me new white tights ;-)
- The priest, Olli-Pekka Ylisuutari for a beautiful ceremony
- Organ player Harri Viitanen
- The mysterious tourist with the expensive camera who sent us a CD containing 200 wedding pictures of us
- Hetty’s for the hairdo in Norway

A few more pictures on flickr!

More pictures coming later.

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